{"id":1518,"date":"2012-05-03T18:44:21","date_gmt":"2012-05-03T18:44:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/noi3.org\/site\/?p=1518"},"modified":"2012-05-03T18:44:21","modified_gmt":"2012-05-03T18:44:21","slug":"parinti-straluciti-profesori-fascinanti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/?p=1518","title":{"rendered":"P\u0103rin\u0163i str\u0103luci\u0163i, profesori fascinan\u0163i"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> \t<span style=\"FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Genera\u0163ia actual\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u0163i a vrut cumva s\u0103 compenseze lipsurile copil\u0103riei lor \u015fi a &icirc;ncercat s\u0103 dea copiilor ce aveau mai bun: cele mai frumoase juc\u0103rii, haine, plimb\u0103ri, \u015fcoli, televizor \u015fi calculator. Al\u0163ii le-au umplut timpul copiilor cu multe activit\u0103\u0163i educative ca &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163area limbilor str\u0103ine, informatic\u0103, muzic\u0103. Inten\u0163ia este excelent\u0103, &icirc;ns\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii nu au &icirc;n\u0163eles c\u0103 televizorul, juc\u0103riile cump\u0103rate, internetul \u015fi excesul de activit\u0103\u0163i blocheaz\u0103 copil\u0103ria, &icirc;n care copilul are nevoie s\u0103 inventeze, s\u0103 &icirc;nfrunte riscuri, s\u0103 sufere decep\u0163ii, s\u0103 aib\u0103 timp de joac\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 se bucure de via\u0163\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> \t<span style=\"FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Acest lucru se &icirc;nt&acirc;mpl\u0103 pentru c\u0103 inteligen\u0163a lor a fost blocat\u0103, noi ne-am transformat &icirc;n ma\u015fini de muncit iar pe ei &icirc;i transform\u0103m &icirc;n ma\u015fini de &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163at.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> \t<b><span style=\"COLOR:rgb(128,172,85);FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">1. Blocarea inteligen\u0163ei<\/span><\/b><br \/> \t<span style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Sistemul educa\u0163ional actual aduce foarte mult\u0103 informa\u0163ie, de cele mai multe ori inutil\u0103. Copiii \u015fi tinerii &icirc;nva\u0163\u0103 cum s\u0103 opereze cu fapte logice, dar nu \u015ftiu cum s\u0103 abordeze e\u015fecurile. &Icirc;nva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 rezolve probleme de matematic\u0103, dar nu \u015ftiu s\u0103-\u015fi rezolve conflictele existen\u0163iale. Sunt antrena\u0163i s\u0103 fac\u0103 calcule f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 gre\u015feasc\u0103, dar via\u0163a este plin\u0103 de contradic\u0163ii \u015fi probleme care nu pot fi calculate.&nbsp;Acest lucru se &icirc;nt&acirc;mpl\u0103 pentru c\u0103 inteligen\u0163a lor a fost blocat\u0103, noi ne-am transformat &icirc;n ma\u015fini de muncit iar pe ei &icirc;i transform\u0103m &icirc;n ma\u015fini de &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163at.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>  <!--more-->  <\/p>\n<div> \t&nbsp;<\/div>\n<p> \t<span style=\"FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Genera\u0163ia actual\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u0163i a vrut cumva s\u0103 compenseze lipsurile copil\u0103riei lor \u015fi a &icirc;ncercat s\u0103 dea copiilor ce aveau mai bun: cele mai frumoase juc\u0103rii, haine, plimb\u0103ri, \u015fcoli, televizor \u015fi calculator. Al\u0163ii le-au umplut timpul copiilor cu multe activit\u0103\u0163i educative ca &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163area limbilor str\u0103ine, informatic\u0103, muzic\u0103. Inten\u0163ia este excelent\u0103, &icirc;ns\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii nu au &icirc;n\u0163eles c\u0103 televizorul, juc\u0103riile cump\u0103rate, internetul \u015fi excesul de activit\u0103\u0163i blocheaz\u0103 copil\u0103ria, &icirc;n care copilul are nevoie s\u0103 inventeze, s\u0103 &icirc;nfrunte riscuri, s\u0103 sufere decep\u0163ii, s\u0103 aib\u0103 timp de joac\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 se bucure de via\u0163\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> \t<span style=\"FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Acest lucru se &icirc;nt&acirc;mpl\u0103 pentru c\u0103 inteligen\u0163a lor a fost blocat\u0103, noi ne-am transformat &icirc;n ma\u015fini de muncit iar pe ei &icirc;i transform\u0103m &icirc;n ma\u015fini de &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163at.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> \t<b><span style=\"COLOR:rgb(128,172,85);FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">1. Blocarea inteligen\u0163ei<\/span><\/b><br \/> \t<span style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Sistemul educa\u0163ional actual aduce foarte mult\u0103 informa\u0163ie, de cele mai multe ori inutil\u0103. Copiii \u015fi tinerii &icirc;nva\u0163\u0103 cum s\u0103 opereze cu fapte logice, dar nu \u015ftiu cum s\u0103 abordeze e\u015fecurile. &Icirc;nva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 rezolve probleme de matematic\u0103, dar nu \u015ftiu s\u0103-\u015fi rezolve conflictele existen\u0163iale. Sunt antrena\u0163i s\u0103 fac\u0103 calcule f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 gre\u015feasc\u0103, dar via\u0163a este plin\u0103 de contradic\u0163ii \u015fi probleme care nu pot fi calculate.&nbsp;Acest lucru se &icirc;nt&acirc;mpl\u0103 pentru c\u0103 inteligen\u0163a lor a fost blocat\u0103, noi ne-am transformat &icirc;n ma\u015fini de muncit iar pe ei &icirc;i transform\u0103m &icirc;n ma\u015fini de &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163at.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> \t<b><span style=\"COLOR:rgb(128,172,85);FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">2. Utilizarea gre\u015fit\u0103 a func\u0163iilor memoriei<\/span><\/b><br \/> \t<span style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Prin sistemul educa\u0163ional actual memoria copiilor este transformat\u0103 &icirc;ntr-un depozit de informa\u0163ie inutil\u0103, iar excesul acesteia blocheaz\u0103 inteligen\u0163a copiilor \u015fi bucuria lor de a tr\u0103i. Cea mai mare parte a informa\u0163iilor pe care le acumul\u0103m nu vor fi folosite niciodat\u0103. Num\u0103rul actual de \u015fcoli este mai mare dec&acirc;t &icirc;n orice alt\u0103 epoc\u0103, &icirc;ns\u0103 acestea nu produc persoane care g&acirc;ndesc, \u015fi nu e de mirare c\u0103 elevii au pierdut pl\u0103cerea de a &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163a.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> \t<span style=\"FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Pe de alt\u0103 parte, mediile de informare &icirc;i seduc cu stimuli rapizi, gata prepara\u0163i, care &icirc;i transport\u0103 pe tineri, f\u0103r\u0103 ca ei s\u0103 fac\u0103 vreun efort, &icirc;n mijlocul diverselor aventuri &ndash; sportive, de r\u0103zboi, politice sau sentimentale. Bombardamentul acesta de stimuli care vin prin televiziune \u015fi internet ac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 asupra subcon\u015ftientului, m\u0103rindu-le nevoia de pl\u0103ceri &icirc;n via\u0163a real\u0103. Astfel &icirc;n timp ei nu mai g\u0103sesc pl\u0103cere &icirc;n micii stimuli ai rutinei zilnice \u015fi vor c\u0103uta stimuli tot mai puternici, trebuind s\u0103 fac\u0103 foarte multe lucruri pentru a avea pu\u0163in\u0103 pl\u0103cere. Toate acestea genereaz\u0103 personalit\u0103\u0163i fluctuante, instabile \u015fi nemul\u0163umite.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> \t<b><span style=\"COLOR:rgb(128,172,85);FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">3. Inform\u0103m \u015fi nu form\u0103m<\/span><\/b><br \/> \t<span style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Noi nu &icirc;i form\u0103m pe tineri, ci doar &icirc;i inform\u0103m. Ei cunosc tot mai mult despre lumea &icirc;n care se afl\u0103, dar nu \u015ftiu mai nimic despre lumea lor interioar\u0103. Educa\u0163ia este tot mai lipsit\u0103 de ingredientul emo\u0163ional \u015fi produce tineri care rareori \u015ftiu s\u0103 &icirc;\u015fi cear\u0103 iertare, s\u0103 &icirc;\u015fi recunoasc\u0103 limitele sau s\u0103 se pun\u0103 &icirc;n locul celorlal\u0163i.<\/span><\/p>\n<div> \t<b><span style=\"COLOR:rgb(128,172,85);FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Care este rezultatul?<\/span><\/b><br \/> \t<span style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">O genera\u0163ie de copii \u015fi tineri mai bolnav\u0103 psihic dec&acirc;t oricare alta din istoria umanit\u0103\u0163ii: copii depresivi, preadolescen\u0163i \u015fi adolescen\u0163i care dezvolt\u0103 obsesii, sindroame de panic\u0103, timiditate, fobii sau agresivitate. &Icirc;n plus, tot mai mul\u0163i dintre ei caut\u0103 pl\u0103cerea de moment &icirc;n consumul de tutun, alcool \u015fi droguri.<\/span><\/div>\n<div> \t<b><span style=\"COLOR:rgb(128,172,85);FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">CE ESTE DE F\u0102CUT?<\/span><\/b><br \/> \t<span style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">Dr. Augusto Cury ne spune c\u0103 &icirc;n ziua de azi nu ajunge s\u0103 fim p\u0103rin\u0163i buni, ci trebuie s\u0103 devenim p\u0103rin\u0163i inteligen\u0163i. Pentru aceasta ne vorbe\u015fte despre \u015fapte deprinderi ale &bdquo;p\u0103rin\u0163ilor buni&rdquo; \u015fi cum trebuie transformate ele de c\u0103tre &bdquo;p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i&rdquo;. Iat\u0103 prima dintre ele:<\/span><\/div>\n<p> \t<span style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">&nbsp;<b>P\u0103rin\u0163ii buni dau cadouri, p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i d\u0103ruiesc propria lor fiin\u0163\u0103<\/b><br \/> \tP\u0103rin\u0163ii buni au grij\u0103 s\u0103 satisfac\u0103, &icirc;n m\u0103sura posibilit\u0103\u0163ilor lor economice, dorin\u0163ele copiilor lor. Fac petreceri pentru anivers\u0103ri, le cump\u0103r\u0103 pantofi, haine, produse electronice, organizeaz\u0103 excursii.<br \/> \tP\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i dau copiilor ceva incomparabil mai valoros. Ceva ce nu se poate cump\u0103ra cu to\u0163i banii din lume: fiin\u0163a lor, povestea vie\u0163ii lor, experien\u0163ele lor, lacrimile lor, timpul lor.<br \/> \tP\u0103rin\u0163ii care le fac &icirc;n permanen\u0163\u0103 daruri copiilor lor sunt p\u0103stra\u0163i &icirc;n amintire doar pentru un moment. P\u0103rin\u0163ii care se preocup\u0103 s\u0103 le d\u0103ruiasc\u0103 copiilor exemple \u015fi povestiri din via\u0163a lor r\u0103m&acirc;n de neuitat.<br \/> \t&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br \/> \t<b>P\u0103rin\u0163ii buni alimenteaz\u0103 corpul, p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i alimenteaz\u0103 personalitatea<\/b><br \/> \tAst\u0103zi, p\u0103rin\u0163ii buni cresc copii zbuciuma\u0163i, &icirc;nstr\u0103ina\u0163i, autoritari \u015fi angoasa\u0163i, pentru c\u0103 societatea s-a transformat &icirc;ntr-o fabric\u0103 de stres. P\u0103rin\u0163ii care nu-\u015fi &nbsp;&icirc;nva\u0163\u0103 copiii s\u0103 aib\u0103 o viziune critic\u0103 asupra publicit\u0103\u0163ii, a emisiunilor de televiziune \u015fi a discrimin\u0103rii sociale &icirc;i transform\u0103 &icirc;ntr-o prad\u0103 u\u015foar\u0103 pentru sistemul acaparator. Pentru acest sistem, copilul vostru nu este o fiin\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103, ci un consumator. Preg\u0103ti\u0163i copilul pentru &bdquo; a fi&rdquo;, c\u0103ci lumea &icirc;l va preg\u0103ti pentru &bdquo; a avea&rdquo;.<br \/> \tAjuta\u0163i-v\u0103 copiii s\u0103 nu fie sclavii problemelor lor. Alimenta\u0163i &nbsp;amfiteatrul g&acirc;ndurilor \u015fi teritoriul emo\u0163iilor cu curaj \u015fi &icirc;ndr\u0103zneal\u0103. Nu le accepta\u0163i timiditatea \u015fi nesiguran\u0163a. Dac\u0103 problemele se pot rezolva, vor fi rezolvate, iar dac\u0103 nu, trebuie s\u0103 ne accept\u0103m limitele.<br \/> \t&nbsp;<br \/> \t<b>P\u0103rin\u0163ii buni corecteaz\u0103 gre\u015felile, p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i &icirc;\u015fi &icirc;nva\u0163\u0103 copiii cum s\u0103 g&acirc;ndeasc\u0103<\/b><br \/> \tVechile corec\u0163ii \u015fi binecunoscutele predici nu mai func\u0163ioneaz\u0103. C&acirc;nd deschide\u0163i gura s\u0103 repeta\u0163i acela\u015fi lucru, declan\u015fa\u0163i un resort din subcon\u015ftient care deschide anumite arhive ale memoriei, ce con\u0163in critici mai vechi. 99% din criticile \u015fi corec\u0163iile p\u0103rin\u0163ilor sunt inutile &icirc;n influen\u0163area personalit\u0103\u0163ii tinerilor.<br \/> \tA-\u0163i surprinde copilul &icirc;nseamn\u0103 a spune lucruri la care ei nu se a\u015fteapt\u0103. De exemplu: copilul a ridicat glasul la voi. Se a\u015fteapt\u0103 s\u0103 \u0163ipa\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103-l pedepsi\u0163i. Dar pute\u0163i &icirc;ncepe prin a t\u0103cea \u015fi a v\u0103 relaxa, apoi pute\u0163i spune:&rdquo;Nu m\u0103 a\u015fteptam s\u0103 m\u0103 superi &icirc;n felul acesta. &Icirc;n ciuda durerii pe care mi-ai provocat-o, eu te iubesc \u015fi te respect mult&rdquo;. Apoi copilul trebuie l\u0103sat s\u0103 se g&acirc;ndeasc\u0103.<br \/> \tP\u0103rin\u0163ii buni spun: &bdquo; Gre\u015fe\u015fti&rdquo;; p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i spun: &bdquo;Ce p\u0103rere ai despre comportamentul t\u0103u?&rdquo; &bdquo;G&acirc;nde\u015fte &icirc;nainte s\u0103 reac\u0163ionezi&rdquo;<br \/> \t&nbsp;<br \/> \t<b>P\u0103rin\u0163ii buni &icirc;\u015fi preg\u0103tesc copiii pentru aplauze, p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i &icirc;\u015fi preg\u0103tesc copiii pentru e\u015fecuri<\/b><br \/> \tP\u0103rin\u0163ii buni educ\u0103 inteligen\u0163a copiilor lor, p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i le educ\u0103 sensibilitatea. Stimula\u0163i-i pe copii s\u0103 aib\u0103 obiective, s\u0103 caute succesul &icirc;n studiu, &icirc;n munc\u0103, &icirc;n rela\u0163iile sociale, dar nu v\u0103 opri\u0163i aici. Ajuta\u0163i-i s\u0103 nu le fie team\u0103 de insuccese. Nu exist\u0103 podium f\u0103r\u0103 &icirc;nfr&acirc;ngeri. Mul\u0163i nu str\u0103lucesc &icirc;n munca lor pentru c\u0103 au renun\u0163at &icirc;n fa\u0163a primelor obstacole, pentru c\u0103 nu au avut r\u0103bdare s\u0103 suporte un &bdquo;nu&rdquo;, pentru c\u0103 nu au avut &icirc;ndr\u0103zneala de a &icirc;nfrunta unele critici, nici umilin\u0163a de a-\u015fi recunoa\u015fte gre\u015feala.<br \/> \tPerseveren\u0163a este la fel de important\u0103 ca \u015fi capacit\u0103\u0163ile intelectuale. Pentru p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i, a avea succes nu &icirc;nseamn\u0103 a avea o via\u0163\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 gre\u015feli. De aceea sunt &icirc;n stare s\u0103 spun\u0103 copiilor lor: &bdquo;Am gre\u015fit&rdquo;, &bdquo;Scuz\u0103-m\u0103&rdquo;, &bdquo;Am nevoie de tine&rdquo;. P\u0103rin\u0163ii care nu-\u015fi cer scuze nu-\u015fi vor &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163a copiii cum s\u0103 abordeze arogan\u0163a.<br \/> \t&nbsp;<br \/> \t<b>P\u0103rin\u0163ii buni vorbesc, p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i dialogheaz\u0103 ca ni\u015fte prieteni<\/b><br \/> \tA sta de vorb\u0103 &icirc;nseamn\u0103 a vorbi despre lumea care ne &icirc;nconjoar\u0103, a dialoga &icirc;nseamn\u0103 a vorbi despre lumea &icirc;n care <u>suntem:<\/u> &nbsp;a relata experien\u0163e, a &icirc;mp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fi<u> <\/u>ceea ce se afl\u0103 ascuns &icirc;n inima fiec\u0103ruia, a p\u0103trunde dincolo de cortina<u> <\/u>comportamentelor. Peste 50% din p\u0103rin\u0163i n-au avut curajul de a dialoga cu copiii lor despre temerile, pierderile \u015fi frustr\u0103rile personale.<br \/> \tNu trebuie s\u0103 deveni\u0163i o juc\u0103rie &icirc;n m&acirc;na copilului, ci un prieten foarte bun. Adev\u0103rata autoritate \u015fi respectul solid se nasc din dialog. Dialogul este o perl\u0103 ascuns\u0103 &icirc;n inim\u0103. Ea este scump\u0103, pentru c\u0103 aurul \u015fi argintul n-o pot cump\u0103ra.<br \/> \t&nbsp;<br \/> \t<b>P\u0103rin\u0163ii buni dau informa\u0163ii, p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i povestesc istorioare<\/b><br \/> \tCapta\u0163i-v\u0103 copiii prin inteligen\u0163a voastr\u0103, nu prin autoritate, bani sau putere. \u015eti\u0163i care este termometrul care indic\u0103 dac\u0103 sunte\u0163i agteabil? Imaginea pe care o au despre voi copiii \u015fi prietenii acestora. Dac\u0103 le face pl\u0103cere s\u0103 fie &icirc;n preajma voastr\u0103, a\u0163i trecut testul.<br \/> \tOdat\u0103, una dintre fiicele mele a fost criticat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 era o persoan\u0103 simpl\u0103. Se sim\u0163ea trist\u0103 \u015fi resp\u0103ns\u0103.Dup\u0103 ce am auzit povestea ei, mi-am pus imagina\u0163ia la treab\u0103 \u015fi i-am spus urm\u0103toarea pild\u0103: unii prefer\u0103 un soare frumos pictat &icirc;ntr-un tablou, al\u0163ii prefer\u0103 un soare real, chiar dac\u0103 este acoperit cu nori. Am &icirc;ntrebat-o: ce soare preferi? A ales soarele real Atunci, am ad\u0103ugat, chiar dac\u0103 unii oameni nu cred &icirc;n soarele t\u0103u, el str\u0103luce\u015fte. Tu ai lumina proprie. &Icirc;ntr-o zi norii se vor risipi \u015fi oamenii te vor vedea. S\u0103 nu-\u0163i fie team\u0103 c\u0103 &icirc;\u0163i pierzi lumina.<br \/> \tP\u0102RIN\u0162II INTELIGEN\u0162I &Icirc;\u015eI STIMULEAZ\u0102 COPIII S\u0102-\u015eI &Icirc;NVING\u0102 TEMERILE \u015eI S\u0102 AIB\u0102 ATITUDINI BL&Acirc;NDE.<br \/> \t&nbsp;<br \/> \t<b>P\u0103rin\u0163ii buni ofer\u0103 oportunit\u0103\u0163i, p\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i nu renun\u0163\u0103 niciodat\u0103<\/b><br \/> \tP\u0103rin\u0163ii inteligen\u0163i sunt sem\u0103n\u0103tori de idei \u015fi nu controleaz\u0103 via\u0163a copiilor lor. Ei seam\u0103n\u0103 \u015fi a\u015fteapt\u0103 ca semin\u0163ele s\u0103 germineze. Pe timpul a\u015ftept\u0103rii poate s\u0103 apar\u0103 m&acirc;hnire, dar, dac\u0103 semin\u0163ele sunt bune, vor &icirc;ncol\u0163i.<br \/> \tNimeni nu-\u015fi ia diplom\u0103 &icirc;n misiunea de a educa. &Icirc;nainte, p\u0103rin\u0163ii erau autoritari; ast\u0103zi sunt copiii. &Icirc;nv\u0103\u0163a\u0163i s\u0103 spune\u0163i &bdquo;nu&rdquo; f\u0103r\u0103 team\u0103. Dac\u0103 ei nu aud &bdquo;nu&rdquo; de la d-voastr\u0103, nu vor fi preg\u0103ti\u0163i s\u0103 aud\u0103 &bdquo;nu&rdquo; de la via\u0163\u0103. P\u0103rin\u0163ii nu trebuie s\u0103 cedeze &icirc;n fa\u0163a \u015fantajelor \u015fi presiunii copiilor. &Icirc;n caz contrar, emo\u0163ia copiilor va deveni un balansoar:: ast\u0103zi sunt docili, m&acirc;ine explozivi. Trebuie stabilite clar ce aspecte pot fi negociabile. De exemplu, a merge la culcare noaptea t&acirc;rziu &icirc;n cursul s\u0103pt\u0103m&acirc;nii \u015fi a se trezi devreme pentru a &icirc;nv\u0103\u0163a este inacceptabil \u015fi prin urmare ne-negociabil.<br \/> \tTr\u0103im vremuri grele. P\u0103rin\u0163ii din toat\u0103 lumea se simt pierdu\u0163i. Cucerirea planetei sufletului copilului este mai compex\u0103 dec&acirc;t cucerirea planetei. <\/span><\/p>\n<div> \t<b><span lang=\"IT\" style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">CELE 7 P\u0102CATE CAPITALE ALE EDUCA\u0162IEI<\/span><\/b><br \/> \t<span lang=\"IT\" style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">1. &nbsp;<\/span><span lang=\"PT-BR\" style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">A corecta &icirc;n public<br \/> \t2. &nbsp;A exprima autoritatea cu agresivitate<br \/> \t3. &nbsp;A fi excesiv de critic: a obstruc\u0163iona copil\u0103ria celui educat<br \/> \t4. &nbsp;<\/span><span lang=\"IT\" style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">A pedepsi la furie \u015fi a pune limite, f\u0103r\u0103 a da explica\u0163ii<br \/> \t5. &nbsp;A fi ner\u0103bd\u0103tor \u015fi a renun\u0163a s\u0103 mai faci educa\u0163ie<br \/> \t6. &nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:11pt;\">A nu te \u0163ine de cuv&acirc;nt<br \/> \t7. &nbsp;A distruge speran\u0163a \u015fi visele<br \/> \t&nbsp;<br \/> \t&nbsp;<b>Dr. Augusto Cury, psihiatru \u015fi psihoterapeut, \u015fi-a dedicat 17 ani din via\u0163\u0103 cercet\u0103rii modului &icirc;n care construie\u015fte \u015fi se dezvolt\u0103 inteligen\u0163a. Analiza pe care o face societ\u0103\u0163ii contemporane ajunge la urm\u0103toarea concluzie: singur\u0103tatea nu a fost niciodat\u0103 at&acirc;t de intens\u0103: p\u0103rin\u0163ii &icirc;\u015fi ascund sentimentele de copii, copiii &icirc;\u015fi ascund lacrimile de p\u0103rin\u0163i \u015fi profesorii se refugiaz\u0103 &icirc;n autoritarism. Cantitatea de informa\u0163ie \u015fi cuno\u015ftin\u0163e disponibile este mai mare; cu toate acestea, noile genera\u0163ii nu sunt formate pentru a g&acirc;ndi, ci pentru a repeta informa\u0163ii. &Icirc;n cartea sa, &bdquo;P\u0103rin\u0163i str\u0103luci\u0163i, profesori fascinan\u0163i&ldquo;, tradus\u0103 \u015fi &icirc;n rom&acirc;n\u0103, Dr. Augusto Cury atrage aten\u0163ia asupra necesit\u0103\u0163ii schimb\u0103rii felului &icirc;n care se face educa\u0163ia contemporan\u0103.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div> \t&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div> \t<b><span lang=\"IT\" style=\"COLOR:blue;\">P\u0103rin\u0163i str\u0103luci\u0163i, profesori fascinan\u0163i&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><span lang=\"IT\" style=\"COLOR:blue;FONT-SIZE:10pt;\">&#8211; <\/span><i><b><span lang=\"IT\" style=\"COLOR:blue;\">Augusto Cury<\/span><\/b><\/i><span lang=\"IT\" style=\"COLOR:black;FONT-SIZE:10pt;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<p> \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Genera\u0163ia actual\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u0163i a vrut cumva s\u0103 compenseze lipsurile copil\u0103riei lor \u015fi a &icirc;ncercat s\u0103 dea copiilor ce aveau mai bun: cele mai frumoase&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[681,680,382,682,547],"class_list":["post-1518","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-altele-continut","tag-copii","tag-educatie","tag-evolutie","tag-informare","tag-parinti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1518","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1518"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1518\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1518"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1518"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1518"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}