{"id":6897,"date":"2015-04-24T20:32:51","date_gmt":"2015-04-24T20:32:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/noi3.org\/site\/?p=6897"},"modified":"2015-04-24T20:32:51","modified_gmt":"2015-04-24T20:32:51","slug":"moartea-explicata-de-o-fetita-cu-cancer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/site.noi3.org\/?p=6897","title":{"rendered":"Moartea explicat\u0103 de o feti\u021b\u0103 cu cancer"},"content":{"rendered":"

\t\u201eAtunci c\u00e2nd eu voi muri, cred c\u0103 mama mea va fi cuprins\u0103 de nostalgie, dar nu-mi este fric\u0103 de moarte. Nu m-am n\u0103scut pentru aceast\u0103 via\u021b\u0103!\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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\t\u201eAtunci c\u00e2nd eu voi muri, cred c\u0103 mama mea va fi cuprins\u0103 de nostalgie, dar nu-mi este fric\u0103 de moarte. Nu m-am n\u0103scut pentru aceast\u0103 via\u021b\u0103!\u201d (<\/em><\/strong>de Dr. Rog\u00e9rio Brand\u00e3o<\/strong>, oncolog)<\/p>\n

\t\u201eCa \u0219i medic specialist \u00een oncologie, cu 29 de ani de experien\u021b\u0103 profesional\u0103, pot afirma c\u0103 am fost crescut \u0219i schimbat de dramele tr\u0103ite de pacien\u021bii mei. Nu ne putem cunoa\u0219te dimensiunea real\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd, \u00een mijlocul adversit\u0103\u021biilor, nu descoperim c\u0103 suntem capabili s\u0103 mergem mult mai departe.<\/p>\n

\t\u00cemi amintesc cu emo\u021bie Spitalul Oncologic din Pernambuco (Brazilia), unde am f\u0103cut primii pa\u0219i ca \u0219i profesionist. Am asistat la drama pacien\u021bilor mei, mici victime nevinovate afectate de cancer. Odat\u0103 cu na\u0219terea primului meu copil, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 simt inconfortabil, v\u0103z\u00e2nd suferin\u021ba celorlal\u021bi copii. Toate acestea, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een ziua \u00een care un \u00eenger a venit l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine!<\/p>\n

\tAm v\u0103zut acel \u00eenger \u00een chipul unei feti\u021be de 11 ani, epuizat\u0103 de diferite tratamente care au implicat programe chimice \u0219i radia\u021bii, timp de 2 ani. Dar nu am v\u0103zut renun\u021bare \u00een acel mic \u00eenger. Am v\u0103zut-o pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd de multe ori, am v\u0103zut team\u0103 \u00een ochii ei, dar acest lucru este uman!<\/p>\n

\t\u00centr-o zi am ajuns mai devreme la spital \u0219i mi-am g\u0103sit \u00eengera\u0219ul singur \u00een camer\u0103. Am \u00eentrebat-o unde este mama ei. Nici chiar ast\u0103zi nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 spun r\u0103spunsul pe care mi l-a dat f\u0103r\u0103 a m\u0103 emo\u021biona profund\u201d.<\/p>\n

\t\u201eUneori, mama iese din camer\u0103 pentru a pl\u00e2nge \u00een ascuns pe hol. Atunci c\u00e2nd eu voi muri, cred c\u0103 mama mea va fi cuprins\u0103 de nostalgie, dar nu-mi este fric\u0103 de moarte. Nu m-am n\u0103scut pentru aceast\u0103 via\u021b\u0103!\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

\t\u201eCe reprezint\u0103 moartea pentru tine, drag\u0103? Am \u00eentrebat-o\u201d.<\/p>\n

\t\u201eC\u00e2teodat\u0103, c\u00e2nd suntem mici, mergem la culcare \u00een patul p\u0103rin\u021bilor no\u0219tri, iar a doua zi ne trezim \u00een patul nostru, nu-i a\u0219a?\u201d.<\/em> \u201e\u00cen acel moment mi-am amintit de fiicele mele, care \u00een acea perioad\u0103 aveau 6 respectiv 8 ani, \u0219i exact acest lucru se \u00eent\u00e2mpla cu ele\u201d.<\/p>\n

\t\u201eA\u0219a este \u0219i moartea. \u00centr-o zi voi dormi, iar Tat\u0103l meu va veni s\u0103 m\u0103 ia. M\u0103 voi trezi \u00een casa Sa, \u00een adev\u0103rata mea via\u021b\u0103!\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

\t\u201eAm r\u0103mas \u0219ocat, ne\u0219tiind ce s\u0103 mai spun. Am r\u0103mas uimit de maturitatea cu care suferin\u021ba a accelerat spiritualitatea acelui copil.<\/p>\n

\t\u201eIar mama mea va fi cuprins\u0103 de nostalgie\u201d<\/em>, a ad\u0103ugat.<\/p>\n

\t\u201eEmo\u021bionat, cu greu st\u0103p\u00e2nindu-mi lacrimile, am \u00eentrebat-o: \u201eCe este nostalgia pentru tine, drag\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n

\t\u201eNostalgia este iubirea care r\u0103m\u00e2ne!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\t\u201eAst\u0103zi, la 53 de ani, \u00eei provoc pe to\u021bi s\u0103 dea o defini\u021bie mai bun\u0103, mai direct\u0103 \u0219i mai simpl\u0103 a cuv\u00e2ntului \u201enostalgie\u201d: este iubirea care r\u0103m\u00e2ne!<\/p>\n

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\t\u00cengera\u0219ul meu a plecat \u00een urm\u0103 cu mul\u021bi ani, dar mi-a l\u0103sat o mare lec\u021bie care m-a ajutat s\u0103-mi \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021besc via\u021ba, s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 fiu mai uman, mai afectuos cu pacien\u021bii mei \u0219i s\u0103-mi reconsider valorile. Noaptea, c\u00e2nd cerul este senin \u0219i v\u0103d o stea, o numesc \u201e\u00eengerul meu\u201d, care str\u0103luce\u0219te \u0219i lumineaz\u0103 \u00een cer.<\/p>\n

\tMul\u021bumesc, \u00eengera\u0219, pentru via\u021ba pe care am avut-o, pentru lec\u021biile \u0219i pentru ajutorul pe care mi le-ai dat. Ce frumos este c\u0103 exist\u0103 nostalgia! Iubirea care a r\u0103mas este etern\u0103!\u201d<\/p>\n

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